Building a wall to be broken...

Friends come with dramas, and dramas bring about a fair bit of fun in life. Recently, some friends and I have drifted apart, not out of serious intention but instead allowing distance to play its part. I sat there last night, reminiscing the amazing time we had spent, only then to realise that this barrier we had created was made to be destroyed. It only takes one hello before everything automatically does its magic and it all falls perfectly in place. Many say you drift apart from people and it is a part of life, but it is in our control as to who we wish to keep. Let not time nor place overcome a smile that is worth more than effort taken to build this wall. And if it is rejection you fear after being separated for a while, the words unspoken will hold its placing, flowering once again what had once been rooted. People are amazing, in every possible way. Being caught up in our own little world is no good of an excuse. Don't be blind and leave behind the diamonds in your hands while searching for the gold in your world.

ps. Have you guys had any sweet little reunion stories? I would totally love to hear!

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  1. Paula thirteenthoughts.com6 September 2014 at 08:05

    I wish I had a "sweet little reunion" story to share ;) Truth is, if someone doesn't make an effort to stay in your life (despite of you trying) then they probably weren't worth you time from the beginning. Then, of course, are also those friends, who you may have not spoken to in ages, and when you see them, it's like they never left, like nothing changed :) I've lost a very special friend once and haven't spoken to that person in years. The memories of our good times are all that I have left and it so sad to think about that sometimes. You're so very right though, people are amazing, but it's up to us to keep only those in our life, that lift us higher :)

    Paula
    My beauty and lifestyle blog

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    1. Zaynab29 September 2014 at 15:38

      Ah the beauty of our differences is what makes friendship amazing :)

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  2. Fatima Fabulous28 September 2014 at 20:26

    You're so right! Beautiful written! x

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  3. Zaynab29 September 2014 at 15:39

    Thanks beautiful :)

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